I have had a little bit of a crush on a good friend of mine's brother since I can remember. He's really hot, has the who bad boy vibe going on, and strongly reminds me of Justin Timberlake. But she was a good friend of mine, and I rarely ever saw him, so that was the extent of it, a little heart flutter whenever he walked into the room.
Then the past few months happened. First, he has a child, who he is taking care of very maturely while she is on trial for stealing from the government and is overseas for the Army. They broke up because she was stealing computers and selling them, and denied it to everyone until right around when she had her baby. He said that a relationship is based on trust, and broke up with her. They are now in an open relationship (what he calls it, I call it drama).
Anyway, so when they were still broken up my friend and I ran into him for the first time since all of this happened. She stopped talking to her brother because she didn't like the way he reacted. So we ran into him, and he flirted with me a little (his personality, but my heart was fluttering away!). And that was it. But I decided my little crush had developed into more.
Then she invited me out a few times with her siblings (its 4 kids, all of age and all like to drink). I finally came out and all she talked about all night was how her brother had a crush on me and how I should go talk to him. My sober ass was too shy, but he did keep sitting down right beside me, and on top of me at one point.
At the end of the night he asked me for a ride home, his sister was a very drunk dd. I agreed, when we got in the car I asked him where he lived (all 4 of them move a lot), and he announced that he was coming home with me. I told him I don't do that (I left out that I only don't do that with guys I want for more than just sexual), and he got out of the car and walked away. That was the end of that.
Not quite, I ran went downtown with her a few weeks later and she told me that her brother had been under the impression that I was demanding a tank of gas (I had asked him to fill up my gas tank, but I never said he had to pay). I texted him the next morning, apologizing for it seeming as though this was my intention. He replied saying that he saw a unicorn (he tries to be witty).
I invited him out for my bday, he asked why he could come to my apartment now and not then. I wrote back a mostly joking slightly dirty message about how I don't sleep around, that I was under the impression he wanted to see the inside of my pussy and not my apartment (oops!) and that it was my bday anyway, so whatever happens happens. My friend read this, told me not to say inappropriate things to her (26 year old) brother. I sent them both a message apologizing, explaining it was a joke. He said he didn't mean for that to happen
A few weeks later he texted me and asked if I got the message, that he didn't mean for her to read the message. At this point I realized how inappropriately close this family is. He and I decided to hang out. That was the extent of our plans.
A few weeks later a mutual hs friend of mine and my friends throws a housewarming party. This may be my last time to hang out with my ex friends hot brother. And I may meet someone new, so I go, potential drama be damned! I say hi to everyone, but kinda ignore the two siblings that are closest to my age. Only 3 are present, apparently these 3 have shunned the 4th for leaving her bf.
Anyway, so I the hot brother stops me and talks to me and I tell him I'm just avoiding drama by avoiding him. I later sit down beside him and talk to him for a bit, can't remember what was said (keg of yuengling, and I don't drink much.)
I also talk to the older brother who also knows about my inappropriate fbook message. Apparently the whole family knows. Yay! The brother isn't mad, he thought it was funny. At least someone did! He then goes on and on about how nice his sisters ex is, about how bad his sister is, and about how he is going to hook up me and his sisters ex.
Now for the real mature part. A few days ago I see that pictures are being posted (finally) from the above party. I notice that my friends name is no longer clickable. She blocked me on fbook.
Then today. A few days ago I temporarily got back into surveys on myspace. The first question was would you ever day your number 1? I responded no, she's a girl, I like dick too much. Yes it is dirty and offensive to some people, but it was a joke, and anyone who knows me it is the truth. If you find it offensive then ignore it and go on with your life, don't read my myspace surveys or my blog, I'd rather you not be offended than read my blog and be offended.
Anyway, so she obviously found this offensive. Decided it was up to her to point this out. She copied that question and answer, said how inappropriate this was, and then blocked me. My friend since I was in 6th grade. We haven't been very close due to the fact that I went away to school and she works all the time, but still, friend since 6th grade that reconnects for a few months every year. Blocked me because of something I said?
Besides writing about it in my blog and asking the hot brother if I did anything else to offend her, I am leaving this alone. If she thinks the way to solve her problems is to block one of her longest friends, then that is her choice, I'm not touching this.
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