So screwed

So Taisha (a girl I work with at Target) and I went to play pool last night, got bored and went to city limits. So I walk upstairs and I see Billy, I give him a hug, turn the corner see Tab, and give her a hug, turn around and see... Jeremy Way. 

So first of all, as you can guess by the name, Taisha is black. And City Limits is a country bar. I told her about it and she was apprehensive about going, bc she didn't want to cause trouble and was afraid there would be race issues. I told her I had never seen anything, that there are other black people, who are regulars, and I got her to go. And she loved it, all of my friends walked up to her and introduced themselves. And Jeremy actually turned around and had a conversation with him. I told her after I was a little nervous as well, that I had seen black people, and had danced with them, but had never hung out with them the entire night. 

So, last night with Jeremy- we started talking and turns out he has Crohn's. I dunno if his flairs have been as bad as mine, but he has only had 2. He has been rushed to the hospital about it because of anemia and has to have IV iron. So we kinda chilled together all night, stood or sat beside each other and joked around. He tried to get me to dance with him, but I was too tired, I danced a few times, but I'd get tired within a few songs. 

Oh, and he threw his cigarettes and then took me out to his car and crushed his other pack in front of me. But he will probably just buy more. 

Oh, and he asked me to go to lunch with him.

And he has a gf, but he's listed as complciated

So I just told my best friend about this who is how I know Tabby and Billy and Jeremy. And she doesn't like it bc he has a gf, she doesn't think I should go to lunch with him. But she also considers dancing cheating, and I don't agree. What happens in the corner and at the after party is cheating. And I think holding hands is cheating, holding hands to me means that you have feelings for them. But she said that she would forget what I told her. 

She also said he doesn't treat gfs right at all. The only thing he mentioned was that he got mad at her for helping another guy with his truck. So this is kind of hypocritical, but it's just lunch, and if he wants to cause drama with his gf, I'm staying out of it.